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ve a little sense of humor; that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality—it is a fiction。
But people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality。 I have seen people reading fiction with tears in their eyes; because in the fiction things are going so tragically。 It is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off; so everybody can enjoy the movie; laugh; cry; be sad; be happy。 If there was light it would be a little difficult—what will others think? And they know perfectly well that the screen is empty—there is nobody; it is just a projected picture。 But they forget it pletely。
And the same has happened with our lives。 Many things which are simply to be taken humorously; we take so seriously—and from that seriousness begins our problem。
In the first place; why should you get married? You love someone; live with someone—it is part of your basic rights。 You can live with someone; you can love someone。
Marriage is not something that happens in heaven; it happens here; through the crafty priests。 But if you want to join the game with society and don’t want to stand alone and aloof; you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that this marriage is just a game:“Never take it seriously。 I will remain as independent as I was before marriage; and you will remain as independent as you were before marriage。 Neither I am going to interfere in